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Giant Pasta




My kids call it the "Giant "pasta. I guess for them its sort of Giant!!

I promised to post this recipe last night, but I have run out of time. My apologies to anyone who wanted it!!

Here is is:

Giant Pasta Shells




What you need:

1/2 pack of Giant Pasta Shells
5 frozen broccoli florets ( frozen works better in this recipe)
5 chestnut mushrooms
2 tbs of coconut cream
1 tbs of all purpose flour ( we use gluten free)
1 tbs of coconut oil
1 tsp of vegan bouillon 
200ml of water


Step 1:

Pre cook pasta according to instruction on the packet. Drain, set aside

Meantime when the pasta is cooking, cook broccoli in plain water,  drain, that should take no more than 10 min. 

Grate the mushrooms and shallow fry in the coconut oil. Add 100 ml of water and pinch of bouillon.  In a separate bowl mix approx. 100ml of water with coconut cream and flour. Add to the boiling mushrooms. It should turn into a thicker sauce. 

Drain the broccoli. With a potato masher mash the broccoli and add rest of the bouillon. Then fill the pasta shells with broccoli mix. Line them up in a heat prove dish. Pour the mushroom mix over. 

Bake in the oven for 10-15 min.

and then eat up!




One of those days...




yep. its been one of those days.

When I feel like the worst mother on the planet. It started quite well...we had our amazing pear pancakes for breakfast. Recipe below.

Then the children helped to clean up their room, then we made lunch. We had fun making gnocchi with my younger sprawling....and then it all went down hill.

Children are very complicated creatures. Being a parent its so hard. You try to be open minded, compassionate, and focused but its so hard it sometimes impossible to keep them happy.

So two grumpy children and me, full of positivity due to lovely weather. We went out to the park.

Fail no 1. No parking
Fail no 2 had to park at the mall and walk...two grumpy children complaining they have o walk
fail no 3. Park was so busy they had nowhere to play.
fail no 4. They decided they wanted to go to get some sorbets and we walked back to the car
fail no 5. Mummy was distracted and took the wrong turning , we ended up adding extra 10 min of driving. with two grumpy children its not fun
fail no 6. sorbet shop closed down
fail no 7 traffic on the way home.


plus many many many more cries and complaints.

I find it really hard to control my own emotions when we have a day like this.. ..So i ended up crying too.

When you are a parent you try to make your children to understand the world, you teach them respect and you teach them empathy for others, you teach them that to win you sometimes have to loose, and that being different is ok. But today I felt like a failure. After a quick bedtime I realised 3 things:

1. My kids don't need trips, sorbets, they need me.
2. Overstimulation is often as bad as no stimulation
3. Trying too hard is exhausting and upsetting, its ok to give yourself a break.

So from now on, I will listen more, and I will try to agree with them the best solutions to our problems. I will tell them about my feelings and will listen to them telling me how they feel. I will make sure they have all they need to be happy, smiley and just be children.

From now on I will try harder but not too hard

Have a good night all.



Pear Pancakes: 




What you need:  (serves two)

2 ripe pears ( apples work too , best bramley apples)
2 cups of almond milk (or any milk you use)
1cup of self rising gluten free flour ( i find that gluten free is better for pancakes)
1 tbs of coconut oil (or any oil)
1 tbs of egg substitute ( i used chia , 1 teaspoon of chia with 100 ml of water to make 5 servings- blended, i used one)
agave nectar to pour on top


In a bowl mix together flour, milk and chia until smooth. In a frying pan melt the coconut oil ( or any oil , heat up ), then using a heat proof spatula add the hot oil to the flour and milk mixture ( be careful its hot!!)  
mix well.  set aside.

peel the pear and cut into rings, using a small knife cut the seedy nests out. then dunk the pear rings in the batter mixture. 

Then using a soup ladle dollop the pear rings onto the frying pan. You shouldn't need any oil as you already put it in the mixture. Cook until golden brown and then flip gently to make sure its cooked evenly and the pear is soft in the middle. 

Serve warm with agave on top or maple syrup if you prefer. 

Enjoy




Viva la Pasta!!!




We are obsessed about pasta in out household. When I realise its not really good for you, I try to buy gluten free and if not available we use wholegrain brown pasta. 

Pasta is the easiest dinner to make, very often is on our tables the night before our food delivery. A fridge cleaning :)

We used to have Italian au pair, oh my! the homemade pasta was out of this world!

Here is a few of our favourites:


Veggie packed Spag "Bol":




What you need:

  • pasta of your choice ( we used linguini, gluten free) - one handful per person
  • 1 finely chopped onion
  • 1 finely chopped carrot
  • 1 finely chopped parsnip
  • other veggies are optional, we like adding courgettes &mushrooms
  • 1 cup of organic tomato pasatta
  • salt & pepper
  • pinch of brown sugar 
  • 1 tbs of oil ( we use coconut oil)



                                                              How to make it :

Put a large pan on boil filled with water). Meantime, shallow fry the onion, then ad carrot and parsnip plus other veggies if you are using any. Cook until soft. Sprinkle with salt and pepper and add a pinch of sugar. Pour in pastas and bring to boil. Transfer the veggies and sauce into a high pan and blend until smooth. 

Once the pasta is cooked, drain the noodles but keep about 2 tbs of pasta water. Add the blended sauce and pasta water. Toss around and serve. 

So quick and so delicious. 






 Coco-nutty Mushroom Penne



What do you need:

  • 7-8 chestnut mushrooms ( I choose organic ) - chopped
  • 1 courgette (chopped)
  • 1 cup of penne pasta per person ( serves up 2)
  • 1 tbs of coconut oil ( or any oil )
  • 1 pinch of veggie seasoning ( like vegan Bouillon)
  • 2 tbs of coconut cream
  • splash of water

How to make it:

Cook pasta, according to instructions. Shallow fry the mushrooms and courgettes. Sprinkle with seasoning. Once cooked splash with water and add coconut cream, cook to reduce , it will turn into a lovely creamy sauce. Add to your cooked pasta. So simple and effective.




Snacking time!!




My kids love to snack!

I love to snack!

Don't we all???

Being vegan allows you to consume more food than a carnivore so yay for snacks!

I have been sleep deprived lately due to my younger one having a ear infection, but she is on the mend. And I admit, I have not been a model parent recently. I admit I yelled at my children over the weekend. Why? Because I was tired, because I needed some me time and having a screaming toddler made it absolutely impossible. Not having my other half with me is exhausting but I usually manage the best I can. Not this time, I felt cheated by life and really not been the super mum I strive to be. Being a good parent is hard.

Talking to you children is crucial. I have always thought that I had to treat my kids equally, but life has showed me that it not actually good for them, so now I treat them according to their individual needs. And I always tell them who special and unique every one of them is for me. My love for them is everlasting and I  want them to be able to have trust in me, and turn to me whenever they are lost.

There is no such a thing as perfect parent or a golden secret to resolve conflicts and other problems. But what is important is knowing your kids, knowing their needs, and their problems. Talk to your children, in age of technology is very easy to plug them in from of TV for a bit of quiet time. I know, I have done it a lot of times, just then to feel guilty that I had no guts to spend time with my kids.

Well enough of live lessons, food wise. It's snack time!!!

Here are some of our favourite snacks! Mainly fruit as we are fruit obsessed!!!!
















Winter Warmers , so what we eat when its so cold outside we rather stay in!




We had a bad day. The younger sprawling woke up very early, like 5 am. I know right?? It's like a middle of the night....

Thats why she was moody and completely uncooperative. But that's the way it is when you have children. You have bad and good days. If you have kids you know. One day they love everything and everyone, just to throw a tantrum that there is too many peas on her plate...you name it.

Sometimes i feel like screaming in a pillow as seems like I bang my head against the wall. :-)

Then the bath drama started when the younger one decided to wash her hair with my shampoo...and then it got in her eyes...the screaming was probably heard in China. The older child decided " he had enough " and retrieved in my bedroom with his book, leaving me with a screaming toddler and soapy floor. Ehh...now its all forgotten, they are both asleep...will see how long it will last :)

I went to see a friend who I haven't seen in what seems like forever!  I brought us lunch, a homemade soup. She was over the moon as none in her family eats soup, and she loves it. We eat a lot of soup, specially in weather like that. When its cold and windy outside, rain is pouring down, we love to snuggle up with a bowl of steaming goodness. Here is some of my favourite recipes:

1. Butternut squash and peanut butter :

What do u need:
Medium size butternut squash
Small onion
5 tbs of crunchy good quality peanutbutter
1tbs of brown sugar
Salt and peper
Sunflower seeds and corriander for garnish
1l of veggie stock

How to make it:

Peel your squash and remove the seeds. Then cut into squares. Put on the baking sheet and sprinkle with sugar and salt. Roast (180 oven) until soft and golden . Dice the onion and fry with some oil  until golden brown. Once the squash is done add to onion and stock. Cook until bubbly. Then blend until smooth. Once nice and smooth add your peanut butter . Season with salt and peper. Serve with chopped corriander and roasted sunflower seeds.


2. Minted pea soup

1 l of veggie stock
1 bag of frozen peas
15 mint leaves
salt and pepper
2 slices of rye bread
dash of coconut cream/milk
olive oil


How to make it:

Cook 3/4 of the frozen peas in your veggie stock for about 15 min on low heat. Then add mint and cook for further 2 min. Take of heat, cool slightly then once cooler blend the soup. Once blended put back on the low heat and add the rest of the peas. Cook until simmers. Take of the heat and add splash of coconut cream ( or any non dairy alternative).  Cut your bread into squares . Heat up 1 tbs of pile oil in the frying pan and add your bread, fry until browned and crispy. Serve in your soup. Enjoy!









Dessert for dinner???




It's been a long day, I was going to spend it relaxing, shopping and totally chilled. Truth is, I wasn't that relaxed, I had to look around for places that I could eat as to be honest the choices were very limited.

After I settled myself in the cafe, ordered a vegan wrap, tea and some treats I realised that I couldn't connect to WIFI as the signal was too weak. Bummer! so no blogging. But I managed to write the conclusive chapters of the new book.

As I sat there , I watched people walking in and out of McDonald's, whole families. Kids, elderly, various skin colour, probably several nationalities. It brought up a memory of last summer and people who we meet on holiday. They were an ordinary middle class family, and we really enjoyed their company. But they also found it very strange to understand our lifestyle, not only them but I come across a lot of people who don't understand, some are curious some are just in denial. I thought it would be a good to share some questions and answers I come across everyday.

1.Why are you doing it to your children?? They cannot be healthy right?

hmmm... yes well, I don't do it to my kids, my children have a free will and they choose to be like me, my soon tried chicken once, but after he realised it was actual wings flapping chicken he vomited it after. My children choose what they eat, they have a choice. Stop judging me on being a horrible demanding parent and realise they are not forced into any of this. If my kids turn up one day to be meat eaters thats fine, they will choose for themselves.

When it comes to health, statistically speaking my kids are super healthy, they eat a lot of plant based protein and carbs, also their diet is high in fibre and vitamins. Their tummies are full and their digestion is top notch. They have no major health conditions, no eczema, etc. They thrive and they are intelligent and happy. How can this be bad for them???

2. So u don't eat meat? No eggs?? No cheese?? So what do you eat ? salad??

( long loud laugh). yes, I eat salad, I also eat food. Being vegan doesn't mean eating grass, it means choosing food which is plant based and not animal based. It always makes me laugh when I see someone stuffing their mouth with ribs or chicken wings and then they claim to be animal lovers. Humph , ok, how is eating a cow or a pig different than eating a dog of your beloved cat???

3. Vegan??? so you don't have any treats???

excuse me??? no treats??? when you are a vegan all you have is treats LOL. but being serious, yes we have treats, we have pancakes, we have cake, we have sweets. Remember sugar is plant based :-D

4. What do you eat when you go out???

Fair question, very hard to eat out when you are a vegan, but manageable. You have to make sacrifices but places are getting more and more vegan friendly. Today I managed to gather a vegan falafel wrap, tea, vegan biscuits and grapes. Not much?? a real feast. All you have to do is check the ingredients.

5. Are you allowed booze??

Many alcoholic drinks, such as beer and wine, will have been clarified/ stabilised (fined) using animal derived products, causing concern for vegetarians and vegans. Fining agents are used as a processing aid (as opposed to an additive) which means in theory none should remain in the final product; however this is impossible to guarantee. But vegan alcohol is available, jus again check the label.

6. Must be very hard and expensive to buy all those fruit and veg.???

Its not cheap, but it can be easily managed on the household budget. You can buy in local farm shops and markets, plus buying in bulk is often better . 


Its just a few questions which popped into my head. I hate it when people tell me I'm crazy and that my children will grow up being disabled because of deficiencies. So I always tell them they are crazy too, as their kids are gonna grow up obese and with high blood pressure. Veganism is not a illness, its a cure!



I had a day away from the children, I missed them, which is lovely. I don't appreciate my children enough, they are little people with unique personalities. My son told me today I was beautiful and he loved me a lot. The best feeling ever, to have you children tell you they love you. 

Heating is on, meaning bye bye summer. So to lift the spirits up, here goes a post of the most amazing treats, pancakes. We often have them for dinner. Dessert for dinner?  Why not???






1. Coconut milk Crepe

they are the winners in our household. Soft and crispy on the edges.

what you need: (makes about 7 )

1 can of coconut milk ( i used canned milk for better taste)
1 banana ( ripe)
100 g of flour ( use speciality flours for gluten free)
3 tbs of oil or trx (melted)

in a blender put milk and banana, blend util smooth. then add oil and flour. Mix until its all combined and makes a smooth batter. I use crepe pan, but if you don't have one, ordinary frying pan will do just fine. Try to get them as thin as possible 9 it takes practise) We eat them with lemon juice and sugar or sliced banana and vegan caramel.  recipe here







2. Apple and chia pancakes.

The best breakfast ever :)  So easy to make ands delish.

What you need: 

2 tbs of apple sauce
200 ml of any plant based milk ( i use almond or hazelnut)
2 tbs of oil 
200 gr of flour ( for gluten free use speciality flours)
1 tsp of vegan baking powder.
3 tbs of chia seeds to sprinkle on top.
pinch of cinnamon

Mix milk with apple sauce until smooth, add flour and oil and mix again. then add cinnamon and baking powder.  in you frying pan make a dollop of batter and roll the pan to spread it slightly, remember we are making pancakes not crepes. fry until golden. Serve with vegan caramel and sprinkle with chia. We also like adding blueberries. 





Hope you all have a lovely day tomorrow. I'm of to bed. 


Smothie? or not to smoothie?




One of my favourite way of starting my days is making a smoothie. I get up early due to my daughter being up with the first signs of the sun ( or rain :P).

Its a great breakfast and such a easy way of getting both vitamins and proteins into your body. 

This morning I had a simple mixed fruit smoothie, a little pick me up to start the day. Usually I just throw 3 or 4 different ingredients and the blend. Here is a few of my favourite :


1. Frozen Pink Cloud

what's in it?

- 3 frozen bananas
- 16 bluberries
- half of can of coconut milk

Just blend and enjoy.





2.  Sunny Day blend

what's in it?

- half of fresh pineapple
- 3 ripe peeled peaches
- 1 tsp of wheetgrass powder ( use fresh if you have any)

just blend and enjoy!





3.  Rainbow Dash :)

what's in it?

- half of frozen pineapple
- 1 fresh mango
- 16 bluberries
- 12 raspberries

just blend and enjoy!




4. Frozen coconut latte

- 3 frozen bananas
- 1 tsp of good quality instant coffee
- half of can of coconut milk

just blend and enjoy!



Frozen bananas are a great base, that way you avoid using ice. Not all blenders/smoothie makers will blend ice , bananas are softer and still a great way to chill your smoothie.  The fruit smoothies are very popular with my children, of course I wouldn't give them any of the coffee one. They are active without the caffeine!!

We had a strange day, younger child was moody and very into defensive mode. Being a mother is the hardest job on the planet but also the most rewarding one. We went swimming today and walking back to the car took us over 20 min as she wouldn't follow but wanted to run up and down the disable ramp ... kids.

Then the migraine happened. I was suppose to write the conclusive chapter of the new book,but my head was pounding and i had spend the rest of the day walking around the house like a zombie. An active 2 year old didn't help. Tomorrow is a new day and I hope that it will be better. Actually its my first "me" day in like forever. My car is due its service so I have to leave it in the garage meaning I will be " stranded" in the coffee shop which serves a soy coffee!!! yay! then some retail therapy, light lunch and back to reality!


Hope people will enjoy reading this blog, and maybe just maybe you will think twice about updating you life style , to make you healthier and more "green".

Love and light x x x





Why blogging?




Good question. I keep moaning about not having time for anything, being busy with children, all the activities, driving them around, houseworks and other chores, not mention work. I say to people, poor me never have time, but in reality several occasions, I spend my time on stupid things, where I could be doing something productive, like blogging.

I started my instagram last year, now I have people asking me for recipes, advice. Its difficult to maintain it on my instagram account, therefore I made an executive decision to start a blog.

No more, moaning, no more excuses.

I think, dividing the posts into sections, like Vegan food, parenting dish and other stuff will help me to be more organised and consistent.

So here it goes. Happy reading ( if anyone actually is reading :P)